Counselling for Children and Young People​
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Counselling for Primary-Aged Children (4-11)

“I founded Create and Connect Counselling in 2020 to help make mental health support more accessible for children. I offer counselling and play-based therapy in primary schools and one-to-one sessions after school in West Street, Fareham for ages 4-11 years.”

I am a trauma-informed child counsellor supporting children aged 4-11 years. With seventeen years’ of experience as a primary school teacher and more than six as a child counsellor, I bring a deep understanding of child development, behaviour, and the school environment into my therapeutic work.

Using an integrative approach that combines play, creative work, and talking therapy, I provide a safe and supportive space where children can understand and express their emotions, develop emotional regulation, build confidence and strengthen resilience.

Over the past six years, I have worked with many children, alongside their families or school staff to provide support for a wide range of emotional, social and behavioural needs.

Is counselling right for your child?

You may be noticing that your child is experiencing difficulties such as:

  • Anxiety or worries
  • Emotional outbursts or difficulty regulating feelings
  • Friendship or social challenges
  • Low self-esteem or confidence
  • Difficulties with change or transitions (e.g. school, family changes)
  • Bereavement or loss
  • Managing the school environment with Autism and/or ADHD

Sometimes parents come to me with a clear concern. Other times, they simply feel something isn’t quite right and want early support before things become more difficult.

How I work with children

Every child is unique, so sessions are tailored to their individual emotional, social, and behavioural needs.

l use an integrative approach, which may include:

  • Play therapy techniques
  • Creative and art-based expression
  • Talking therapy

Sessions are conducted confidentially on a one-to-one basis between your child and me. However, you will be involved in the therapeutic process through regular review meetings, every six sessions, to discuss your child’s progress.

Who I work with

I primarily work with children aged 4-11 in primary school, supporting emotional wellbeing and development through early intervention.

My training also includes working with young people up to age 17 so I also work with clients in early adolescence and teenagers where there is a good therapeutic fit. This is particularly where emotional development is more aligned with a younger age range. These referrals are considered on a case-by-case basis.

I work best with families who:

  • Are open to the counselling process
  • Value consistency and regular attendance
  • Are willing to support their child throughout their therapeutic journey
  • Understand that emotional change takes time

In-school counselling provision

School counselling is at the heart of my professional practice. Following my specialist training in children’s counselling in London, I have worked as a primary school counsellor for over six years and currently provide weekly counselling provision within primary schools in the Waterlooville area of Hampshire.

I offer one-to-one counselling for children experiencing a range of emotional, social and behavioural difficulties, including anxiety, trauma, bereavement, family-related challenges, emotional regulation difficulties and school-based concerns.

Many of the children I work with have already benefited from support through their school’s ELSA provision. In some cases, counselling can be a helpful next step, providing regular therapeutic sessions where children can explore their thoughts, feelings and experiences in greater depth.

Ready to take the next step?

If you are a parent seeking mental health support for your child outside of school, I provide sessions in the evenings at The West Street Counselling Practice in Fareham. Please drop me an email or contact me for your free 15 minute phone consultation 07815 774231.

If you are a school representative looking for professional mental health provision in your primary school please drop me an email: amanda.createandconnect@gmail.com and I will be in contact as soon as possible.

Not quite ready to get in touch?

You are welcome to follow my Facebook page, Create and Connect Child Counselling, where I share insights, resources and practical information about children’s emotional wellbeing as well as more information about the services I offer.

Services

School Counselling

Information for parents

Testimonials

"Thank you for helping my daughter believe in herself again. She has transitioned really well into Year 7 and has made lots of new friends."
"My son now feels less anxious going into school in the morning and his attendance has improved."
"We’ve seen a real improvement in our daughter's confidence since starting support. She seems more comfortable in herself and she is beginning to see neurodiversity in a positive way."
"Amanda's support for our school has been invaluable. She has supported children with a wide range of needs and has shown flexibility and creativity in finding ways to engage them and establish relationships. We have seen real impact from the sessions in children's confidence in speaking up and knowing that their voice is important. Amanda has given children a safe space to explore their feelings and communicate them in a positive and empowering way." Assistant Headteacher for Inclusion, Horndean C of E Junior School, Hampshire (April 2025).
"Amanda has worked with our children for several years, supporting them with their emotions and really providing a safe space for them to talk openly and honestly. It has been wonderful to see how this support has really helped the children to open up outside of their sessions and speak more with other safe adults in their lives. Parents and teachers have observed the difference their sessions with Amanda have had on their overall wellbeing and happiness. We are extremely grateful for the support that Amanda has been able to provide. " SENCo, Waterlooville, Hampshire (July 2025)

Get In Touch Today

Contact me to get support for a child or young person in your school or family.